So yet again it has been awhile since I've blogged but really there's not been much to blog about. This holidays hasn't been life-changing or anything, but it's been fun and I'm more than ready to head back to uni. But as I've been sitting at home vegging out, I've come to ask myself - where am I headed? You just start to wonder where your life will head to in the future.
And so you start to reflect...looking back how far you've come from high school to finishing your first year of university...the skills you've learned, the experience you've gained. Personally, I want to top every aspect of my achievements in every upcoming year. That's what gives me drive and motivation for work and for life and hopefully builds up a ladder to success.
Also on the private side of things...I've come to realise that being an eligible bachelor isn't all that bad =]. When you're fresh out of a relationship...I guess you still feel the need for some sort of co-dependence, hence the neediness from friends and rebounds and such. It's like walking with a cane for 5 years and then having it taken away from you. Then after a certain amount of time, you realise you could stand on your own 2 feet the whole time. It's taken me more time than I thought to get to this stage, and it sure wasn't a smooth transition, but now I'm here and I'm glad ^__^
Most of the time I see friends these holidays is within a last minute whim to go somewhere or do something. E.g. this morning, my wake-up sms was an invite to play tennis. Thanks Allen for organising =D. Also, the day before I left for the Gold Coast, I wanted to see my bro's before I left, so I called up Terry and Will for some mahjong 2 nights before for some chilling (thanks Kris for being 4th player =P). An even better example was when Nat and I were bored on msn so we headed out to the city...within the hour! It's great having friends like these who are just so willing to hang out or bum on a whim. It feels like having an extended family. My grandma is even suspecting me of having a girlfriend because I'm always heading out to see some friends hehe. Thank you all for being such awesome friends =] And if I haven't seen you in awhile, then let's get something organised!
Enjoy the rest of the holidays!~
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